Both men and women can experience pain during sex, although men experience it less often than women. The vagina is much more sensitive and vulnerable than the penis. The pain can have many causes, also the implications can differ. Fortunately almost everything can be solved, cause sex has to stay fun! After the women, now the men:
Irritated penis / glans
This can have more possibilities:
Btw to small condoms can result in bursted cores..
Besides, blue balls can also arise when you don’t have sex for a few days in a row. For one men it’s after 5days, in others after 30days. Best solution here is to jerk off or get laid.
3. Is a bit like 2, holding your orgasm to long. When you become hard on and off you balls can start to ache as well. Than its better to finish yourself with a handjob, or get laid.
4. wild sex (again haha). When you are fucking to hard and your balls are slapping angest your GF’s body it can ache afterwards. You can notice this during sex and change speed or position in that case.Severe, stabbing pain
A frenulum can get torned when it already was short or from to wild seks. When your frenulum is to short you can go to your GP for a small operation to lengthen it. When it’s torn by having to wild sex you don’t always need to see your GP, sometimes cleaning it and giving it rest is already enough to make it heal fast.
Since there is no bone in your penis it can’t really break, when it’s broken it just means one of the erectile bodies is cracked/popped. The penis will become limp immediately and a big swelling will appear. This also happens when you are fucking to hard or when you enter her in the wrong way and crash into her vagina or belly or somewhere else on her body. Please see first aid as fast as you can!
This is somewhat like vaginismus. It’s not causing pain, but very annoying for both of you of course. Go see your GP or a psychologist to find the cause and talk about it with your partner. There are many ways to treat this, from conversation with a psychologist/sexologist to Viagra.