How to: Deep throat, swallowing him whole!

A while ago I decided to surprise my boyfriend with something new, deep throating. Unfortunately this is not as easy a it may look because of a few things.
For example, your body (throat) is not build for something like this and it asks for some practice. 

Luckily for him (and you) I’m not a quitter, nor spitter (haha). By now, I found out how to do  it and of course I won’t keep this wisdom from you!
What is deep throat?
Lets start off with what deep throating is. Deep throat is a form of oral sex in which the entire length of the erect penis is taken into the mouth. The pleasure of deep throating is created by the ring of tightness around the circumference of the penis just below the sensitive head.  Since the average erect penis is longer than the average mouth is deep, deep throat requires suppressing the gag reflex in order to partially swallow the end of the penis. You need to have full control over the muscles in your throat and need to keep you tongue as flat as possible in order to get him as deep in your mouth as possible without being in pain.

That sounds pretty hard, do I have to deep throat?
Of course not. I previously explained you how to give the perfect blowjob and for most men that’s more than enough. In case you want to take that extra step, you could always try. If you want alone, with a banana, dildo or anything which has the same size and shape. Than you can decide whether you like it or not.

Can everybody do it?
As far as I could find everyone would be able to do it, but there are two buts. 1. If you (as giver) have a small mouth and small throat and he has a huge cock then it probably would not be. 2. If you have a very sensitive throat and it is so painful and difficult you better forget about it.

What do men think about it?
HOT! Of course there are a few who don’t like it, and the majority is already happy enough you go down on him, so they would never demand it.

Ok, ok, I know enough, tell me, how do I do it?
Ok relax, let me first point out tree important things.
The first important thing is to make sure his penis is thoroughly lubricated. The penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat if it’s slick with saliva. In order to get more saliva, take the penis as far as  possible in your mouth and just suck it a bit while leaving it there for some seconds. In the back of your throat the saliva is somewhat thicker and by having the penis here your mouth will make even more saliva. If you do this a few times after a minute or two you will have a lot of wetness to smear all over him.

The second is where the problem with deep throating lies. Our bodies are not made for deep throating, behind your tongue, leading down into your throat you have a ninety degrees bend in your throat. Since the penis is hard and long it wont make this bend so you need to come up with a solution for this. Luckily there are a few positions to handle this; lying on your back on the bed, with your head tipped back over the edge, on your knees with your head tipped back facing the ceiling, or the most difficult but a solution for people like me who get dizzy from leaning back, lying on you belly facing his feet and keeping his penis as low possible to his belly. All these positions will put your mouth and throat in a more straight line which will make deep throating possible.

Thirdly, you have to control your breathing. Don’t take a deep breath before taking him into your throat cause the more air in your lungs/throat the less dick can fit in. Breath normally and let some air out if you have him halfway into your mouth. Just as in a normal blowjob you decide how long you keep him into your mouth.

Let’s start!
Begin with extending the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip in order to more flatten the back of your tongue. Then open your throat wide as if you were yawning. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your throat open will counter the gag reflex and will create a larger opening for the penis to enter.

Start off easy, slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible, and then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as necessary. Some will need to practice this more often than others.

He is wet, you are breathing normal, swallowing him a bit further every time and then you get to a point where you seem to face a barricade, just before he enters your throat. Here you need to push just a bit harder (or let him push you) in order to get pass this. You could also use your tongue in order to pull him in more. Here again, if you feel the urge to gag just pause without moving and try again. By repeating this step a few times you will be able to get him more and more deep in your throat.
Tip: Rolling your eyes up will prevent your eyes from tears.

Actually that was it already. As long as your are not totally comfortable with it you need to be in charge off the depth and frequency of the penetration. At the moment you are more used to it you can be more passive and let him be in control over the movement. Specially lying on your back is the best position for him to be in control, plus he will be able to see your throat expend and bulge as his penis slips in more deep.

You will probably not succeed in everything the first time. In case you don’t like it stick to giving him normal blowjob but if you do like it, practice a lot together cause same as for all; Practice makes perfect! Have fun! 

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2 thoughts on “How to: Deep throat, swallowing him whole!

  1. Interesting read as usual. Although I can say not every guy enjoys getting this. I know I personally want my partner to be as comfortable as possible, and since I highly doubt this is in fact comfortable, I feel it takes away from my pleasure.
    But to each his own =)

    Personally I like it when you work the tip of the penis, the rest is pretty much dead to me ^^

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